The definition of infidelity, according to Webster’s Encyclopedia Dictionary is simple: “the lack of loyalty.” I pondered this definition for days. The question, “What is infidelity?” echoed through my mind. I came to the conclusion that, even though my dictionary gives a simple definition, that infidelity is really a complex issue.
Infidelity is many things. It is not just the act of having sexual intercourse with someone other than your partner. It is the act of being disloyal in any way.
I have always taken a firm stand against pornography. It is degrading to women and the fantasies that go along with it often lead to serious crimes. The profiles of thousands of rapists, pedophiles and serial killers have one thing in common. They are addicted to pornography. Continue reading »
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For hundreds of years men and women have celebrated their unions with commitment and marriage, only to have those promises eventually shattered by a partner’s cheating ways. It can happen shortly after the honeymoon, or well into the child rearing years, but either way, it can deal a devastating blow to any intimate relationship. Many questions arise after an exposed betrayal – but the most prominent can be – why did this happen and where do we go from here? This is where the differences between men and women become less subtle and a little more predictable. Continue reading »
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Sexual encounters aren’t always quiet ones. There are many people who love to talk dirty during sex, but there are also people who aren’t exactly sure how to do it.
- First of all, you need to learn to let loose a little bit and be comfortable with talking dirty. Just relax and let it happen. Maybe before you get into the talking dirty with your partner, you can do it alone while masturbating. This way you can come up with natural feelings you get while pleasing yourself and when you get those feelings from your partner, they can be applied.
- Be yourself! Don’t try and imitate the actors in the movie you just watched to get you in the mood, you need to find something in YOUR personality that will work for you for inspiration.
- Do some research on vocabulary. Avoid clinical terms and use more creative ones. Like what words would you use instead of vagina or penis? Continue reading »
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Whether you’re married or not, once you are in a devoted relationship it can be devastating when he strays. This is the time to really reflect on your relationship with him and whether you want to stay or not. You may choose to leave him but if you decide to remain in the relationship you must find a way to forgive, although you may never forget his infidelity. Here are several things you can do to get past the hurt and get back to loving him:
Talk to your girlfriends. Chances are your girlfriends have had a boyfriend or husband cheat on them. Ask them how they got over it and if their advice feels right, take it.
Focus on yourself. Don’t beat yourself up over his bad behavior. Most cheating men say that their affair had nothing to do with emotion; he didn’t love her, she was just ‘something that happened’. Men have an entirely different take on love and sex and can easily separate the two. Now is the time to take extra-special care of yourself, so do waht feels good to you. Work out in the gym, take a long walk or pop in an excercise tape and get your heart pumping. Realize that you are your own best friend and don’t expect him to make you feel good; happiness is an inside job. Continue reading »
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Women and men are certainly different in more ways than one. Their appearance is quite different with distinctive physical characteristics. They take a different slant on various topics concerning life. Plus, the world looks at them differently in regard to expectations.
A woman, for the most part, is expected to be the loving, maternal figure in a family. Moreover, she is expected to be the more subservient or less dominant partner in the relationship. The woman is expected to be the more emotional of the two partners, and quite often, she is. A woman needs love, quite possibly more than she needs anything else.
When a young woman gives herself to a man, she does so for love. If he dumps her and breaks up with her, she may repine, “I thought he loved me,” or “but he said he loved me.” Continue reading »
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Would you rather ride your favourite Holler-coaster once or get an all-night pass? Since you’re likely an up-for-anything chick, we know you’d pick option two. So why settle for just one go-around when it comes to your sex life—especially when doubling up on the deed could increase your orgasmic potential? ‘When your body is still turned on from a previous round, it’s easier to climax,” explains Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of If It Peek Good. Plus, since your man won’t come as quickly the second time, he’ll have more erotic energy to spend pleasing you (and he’ll feel like one helluva stud for going the distance). But you can’t just expect sex after sex, and it’s certainly not smart to demand it. Just follow this strategies for successful sequel sex. Continue reading »
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For as long as I can remember I have been overweight. Throughout my school years I never felt like the boys accepted me for what I looked like and many of them even missed out on a great friend by focusing on the wrong thing. I did have a lot of boys who were friends because they liked my personality, but few boyfriends. Once I was close to the end of my senior in high school it didn’t bother me because I had a steady boyfriend who I ended up dating for the next two years. Then, I met the real love of my life.
I met Richard at a karaoke bar. I knew the instant we met that he was mine because of the look in his eyes. Two weeks later, we became an official couple. Although I do not condone pre-marital sex, I wasn’t a virgin and it wasn’t too long after Rich and I began dating that we had our first intimate encounter. He told me I was beautiful — I melted. Well, not too long after that he told me he really liked the underwear I always wore. Imagine that! And a few months later he asked me if I would be interested in buying some sexy lingerie. I went nuts! Would I?! Of course I would! Here was a guy who just told me he thought my body was beautiful when my whole life I had been hating it. Continue reading »
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There was a treasure trove of sex tips written B.C. (Before Cosmo) that are just as hot as the ones you can find today. For thousands of years, fun, fearless females have been dipping into passion-charged how-to manuals from the Far East. The best news about these millennia-old erotic moves: you don’t have to be a sex high priestess to pull them off, says Sandra Scantling, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Connecticut, US, and author of Extraordinary Sex Now. From wildly stimulating smooches to some very otherworldly oral-sex positions, the lusty history lesson starts now.
The clasping kiss
What makes this Kama Sutra tongue-tango technique hotter than your average lip lock is that it simulates intercourse, says Nitya Lacroix, author of The Women’s Kama Sutra. To do it right, place your lips fully over your man’s and slowly, softly thrust your tongue in and out, touching his tongue, his teeth, and the roof of his mouth. Just like sex, this kiss can alternate between soft and hard to increase its intensity. Then let your guy take the lead. Go back and forth like this for a few minutes before sensually tracing the outside of his lips with your tongue for the grand finale. Continue reading »
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When most men and women interact, they aren’t fully seeing each other for who they are because they’re peering through a screen of past history and beliefs about themselves and their gender identity. Some of these beliefs are culturally prescribed; others are the outgrowth of past experiences, and still others are the remnants of our biological heritage. Many cultures throughout history have experimented with numerous arrangements, from arranged marriages to polygamy, in an attempt to get the sexes functioning jointly without undue friction. But there’s a big difference between men and women behaving companionably according to social mores and them relating to each other from a place of being who they truly are. Continue reading »
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Woe to the husband who refuses to run out to the grocery late at night to satisfy his pregnant wife’s craving for ice cream! Mothers-to-be often yearn for certain type of food, and studies have indicated that it may be because the pregnant woman needs the particular nutrients contained in that food. The desire for sweets is common during pregnancy because the body requires extra calories during the gestation period, but because “she’s eating for two now” it doesn’t mean you need twice as many calories! Too many calories results in excessive weight gain which will cause problems for mother and baby. Continue reading »
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